Are you addicted to advice columns? Frustrated that there aren't more hours in the day to read and listen to even more advice columns? Terrified that you'll be ostracized from your friends and family for falling behind on all the week's best advice? Well, you've come to the right place! No, not a rehab facility—an advice podcast homepage! We're enablers.

Each week, advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions (send your questions for the podcast to [email protected] or anonymously at or to [email protected] for Han's written column). Topics include: relationships, sexuality, roommates, workplace, health, culture, politics, and everything in between. These are the advice columnists who are most frequently cited on the show, including Dear Prudence, Ask Amy, Ask a Manager, Captain Awkward, and many more.

Listen to the latest episodes below, and subscribe on iTunes or Google Play Music (and rate and review!) if you like what you hear! 

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Approximate Schedule


Wednesdays @ 5:30 AM EST
[ Main Episodes ]
"Han and Matt Know It All"
A weekly discussion of the past week's best advice column questions plus a listener question. This also includes guest episodes, all-listener questions, and themed episodes.


No Fixed Schedule
[ Mailbag Episodes ]
"Opinion Overflow"
A roundup of listener correspondence including updates, recommendations, corrections, and anecdotes, plus an additional listener question answered and updates about the show.

Note: Older Overflows are recorded and edited podcast episodes, but the newer format takes place live on our Facebook group, and then they’re archived on our Patreon page (but accessible to anyone).


No Fixed Schedule
[ Written Column ]
"Ask a Helping Han"
Han goes solo with a monthly written advice column that dives into a new listener question each week.

Upcoming Fan & Host Meetups

The next official listener meet-up will come sometime in the fall in Washington, DC.

Also, if you want to host a meetup in your city, let us know and we'll add the details here for others to find!

What Listeners Are Saying

Who are Han and Matt?

Pronouns: They/Them/Their
Profession: Nonprofit Fundraising
Hogwarts House: Ravenclaw
Favorite Advice Givers: Dear Prudence, Ask A Manager
Advice Qualifications: Growing up with three sisters
Often Heard Saying: "Set it all on fire."
Note: As a long-time nonprofit employee, Han would like to add that their opinions and convictions are their own, and not those of any employer, past, present, or future, in this historical timeline or any other.

Pronouns: He/Him/His
Profession: Organic and Paid Search
Hogwarts House: Gryffindor
Favorite Advice Givers: Captain Awkward, MBMBaM
Advice Qualifications: Really good editing skills
Often Heard Saying: Bad jokes that bring him one step closer to being booted from the podcast with each utterance.
Note:  Matt asked HR if he should include any sort of opinion-based disclaimer, and they somehow lost the narrative thread and ended up talking about The Bachelor for half an hour.